Would You Hold My Hand When We Cross The Street?

Men stand and girls kneel

There is just a fundamental difference between our genders. Even though girls can stand strong and Men can kneel docile, it never really feels right for either.

It is basic biology when we think about it. Men are hunters, predators. They take charge, they "go for it". It doesn't always work out and no Man is faultless. But it is in their nature to try and shoot for the moon.

With us girls it is different. We don't like risks. We play it safe and rather follow a well laid out path than make split-second decisions. Overthinking is a big problem for girls.

So when both genders come together, we can support and complement each other. Men take charge but the simple fact that they are now responsible for a fragile girl makes them more risk-aware. Men have no problem risking their own lives, but risking their loved ones? That is what makes them be extra careful. And girls don't like uncharted territories where anything could happen, but if there is a safety net in the form of a Man taking care of us, we can dare to jump into the unknown.

Men thrive when they can take charge and lead. They flourish when they are making impactful decisions. Girls prosper when they can take care of things and nurture them to make them grow and go beyond. They can help Men grow and blossom, while Men have the ability to take girls out of their shells and still keep them safe.

Men benefit from having a girl to take care and girls benefit from leadership. It is a match made in heaven. We just have to be bold enough to admit it: Men stand and girls kneel. None is superior to the other, it is just 2 different sides of a coin. You cannot have a leader without a follower and you cannot follow without a leader.

That means we need to work together. Dear Man, stand tall and take charge. Dear girls, kneel docile and follow.

the colours of nature

Magical pastel sunsets at the beaches of Marche, Italy 🇮🇹💕✨ By @mauro_roberto__

Dominating your sub doesn't always have to be sexual. Get her into some comfy clothes after her bath. She might have had a hard day, so sit her on your lap and do her hair for her. Make her feel loved, make her feel safe. Talk to her. Reassure her that you'll always be here for her. Through the good times and especially the bad. If she starts to cry, that's okay. Kiss her tears away and gently rock her in your arms. Throw on her favorite show. May it be a show on Netflix, a specific movie, or her favorite music video of the song she can't stop singing. Cuddle with her on the bed and just watch it with her. Maybe even sing along if you know the song. Just keep her smiling like only you can do.

Decide For Her.

Decide for her.  Asking her to make decisions stresses the hell out of her.

When there’s a decision to be made (where to eat, what to watch, what she should wear), be mindful of her tastes and preferences, be considerate of her feelings, and when you’ve done all that, make the decision.

Your traditional girl can’t even describe the incredible stress relief she feels when you make the decisions for her.

-VIS

Thank you for following me miss

You’re welcome sweetie ❤️