I Hate You And How Long It Took Me To Get This

queen shit

also it's so funny when someone says they were a loser in high school and their definition of loser is literally just not being in the popular crowd. I hate to break it to you but that's like, most people in high school. when I say I was a loser in high school I mean I would wear wolf ears to school and demand people call me wolfy and I purposefully sat like L from death note in class because I thought it was cool.

Fucking THANK YOU.

Also, pretty sure filmed rape is objectively worse than whatever the hell kinda "misandrist" things women are saying on those subreddits anyways.

Genuinely how is that even comparable in that specific instance either?

This is a (presumably man's) response to my post about violent misogynist porn subreddits.

I will care about "misandry" when men are dying en masse from gender-based violence.

I'll care when men are dying from rape.

I'll care when men are having their bodily autonomy and reproductive rights taken away.

I'll care when men are denied access to education on the basis of their sex.

I'll care when men are being paid disproportionately less than women.

I'll care when men are an oppressed class, minority, or otherwise vulnerable group anywhere on earth.

But none of these things are happening anywhere. There's a billion more things that solely or disproportionately effect women, because the world favours men and I'd be here all day naming them. You're not owed that effort.

Sad thing is even for the femmes, from men at least its still "aww you're my dumb little sweetie pie, I can take advantage of you"

Can't win with misogyny, whether you're a good product or a bad one.

people treat gnc women like absolute shit and i did not realize this until i went out femme literally like twice and suddenly im everyone’s little sweetie pie. what if gnc women want to be little sweetie pies too :( why can’t we be nicer to gnc women

Orange. Since we are recent mutuals, we should meet up at the picnic ^^

AWW YESS 🧡

... Said literally no worthwhile economist

Yeah honestly implying that's a girl thing and that you genuinely knew nothing about computers or take time to google shit is what's misogynistic actually

Which THEY did, not you

why is shopping for computer shit so difficult like what the hell is 40 cunt thread chip 3000 processor with 32 florps of borps and a z12 yummy biscuits graphics drive 400102XXDRZ like ok um will it run my programmes

YES EXACTLY

Also like, genuinely believing in this type of take would literally be like supporting the existence of the confederacy during the Civil War. I mean what do they think secession means exactly lmao

FR, they're so much worse for you than helpful. These things will CAUSE the yeast infection

call us ugly to sell us shit!

Well,

1. Radical feminism isn't just for developed countries. Who told you that was the case?

I can agree, things have gotten better in countries with more feminist policies, but these things certainly have not been there even in "developed" countries for "more than a century". Need I remind you the fact that 50 years ago women weren't allowed to have bank accounts without a mans permission in America? Or that marital rape was only fully illegal in the US as of 1993? And dude look, abortion was made illegal again in many states, a lot of them overlap with the ones that have the most issues with teen pregnancy and child marriage (red states). This is another specific issue.

But enough about America alone. Globally, women's rights have been recently taking a turn for the worse.

You can't undo literal millennia of oppression in only 50 years, and yes attitude and perceptions around women's rights is also important to push policies. Policy doesn't come out of thin air and people generally don't protest for things they don't think they need.

2. I provided specific policies already. It's not my fault if you can't read. And boycotts or each of these polices are just examples, not the full solution. It's a lot more complex and gradual. For example, living women the right to vote also didn't get rid of the patriarchy but it did help. Telling the suffragettes they should give up protesting and that it's hopeless for women to have equal rights however, was not. How are you going to accuse us of doomerism and then delegitimize all political activism and call it useless?

3. The ideas of male and female socialization are pretty integral to radfem theory on gender. If you had doubts, then you can just ask her. No need for charades. What tells you "that person doesn't actually agree that the problem lies in socialisation" lmao?

4. That's the thing, we're against gendered socialization in general. There's not really much to be done in policy at this time, other than trying to educate people get rid of the notion that male and female brains are significantly different or that people are hard-wired as feminine vs masculine because of their brain's gender. Gender ideology/activism did push this back a bit in the scientific field.

What are your proposed solutions or specific issues you want addressed? I hear a lot of criticism from you but... no suggestions?

We used to make fun of people for saying "not all men" it was beautiful