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as an asexual person, the explanation listed from that Reddit post was atrocious. That is not what it means at all. I deeply hope they have just explained it wrong and don't actually think what they've said is true. Here's a helpful explanation of why some asexuals still do have sex (I even got it from Reddit to match) :
this exchange between OP & a sane commenter under yet another "I'm asexual but I still like sex sometimes" post is such a perfect example of what I've been talking about. some women nowadays are identifying as asexual because their view of sex has been so horribly warped by porn & misogyny. I mean she is quite literally saying "being asexual gives me an excuse to not have sex w/my partner if I don't want it "...girl you shouldn't need an excuse to not fuck your bf when you aren't in the mood. the validity of your consent is not at all dependant on what label you use! what a fucking horrible sign of the times that young women think they are the abnormal ones for not wanting to give their men an all access pass to their bodies.
The Myth of the White-Only Radfem
What is up with these anti-radfem/TERF people acting like only white women are radfems/TERFs? Because last time I checked, most of the radfems I’ve met are women of colour and such. I mean, there is a huge radfem movement in South America, and parts of Asia, Africa, and Eastern Europe. It’s seemingly only in the West where feminism is more liberal.
So why is it that they are making up such lies??
Men: why do women think we equate sex with violence? Why do women think we equate penetration with punishment or humiliation?
Men: SUCK MY COCK, GET RAPED, CHOKE ON MY NUTS, I FUCKED YOUR MOTHER
Men: i just don't get why they'd think that... unless maybe it's because they secretly *want* sexual violence... maybe they're upset because they can't stop thinking about my donger
Literally fixed my mental health by so much 😭😭 I didn’t realize how much forcing attraction to men was weighing me down and causing me to be out of touch with a lot of the rest of my personality because I would be constantly questioning my likes/dislikes. Now I just exist as myself and it’s amazing.
realizing I was a lesbian literally felt like this
Adding onto this, “No Ethical Consumption Under Capitalism” started in the punk community/more radical leftist spaces (to my awareness) as a way to call awareness to the hidden exploitations of capitalism and urge you to look more deeply and be responsible with your actions. Sure that $65 shirt can be greenwashed and said that it was sewn in an ethical factory with well-payed workers and environmentally positive policies, but where did they get the fabric from?
It’s supposed to be a call out against the system, but then it somehow got twisted by shein-guzzlers to excuse their actions. It’s supposed to be, “The system is so fucked that we’re forced to rely on slave labor at every turn whether we like it or not, so let’s call it out and push for change and do what we can.” Not an excuse to joyfully profit off of the underpaid labor of thousands and claim that we’re all on the same level.
Leaving the house to get your Temu parcel from the mailbox and wallowing in porn is not actually fighting fascism so jot that down
'stopped measuring myself by conventional womyn standards' babes those were made up
bitch is a slur & i dont think you know what minority means? why would trans identified males be the smallest minority ever that doesnt even help your point LMAO
+ real womyn are killed just for existing, have their bodies constantly in others conversations, and are generally targeted. id really research femicide. its a really important issue that isnt getting nearly enough coverage atm, especially cases outside the west
I would like to send all @cuttingcherub fans a large "no u"
no, literally!! they genuinely piss me off so bad because they’re over here playing the victim “bitch is a slur 🥺” “trans people don’t understand what being targeted is like 😣” while theyre literally sending threats and insults to any trans person they see and anyone defending the trans community. like babe, you’re not the victim.. you’re the abuser.. and to say that trans women don’t know what being targeted is like while they’re one of the smallest, if not THE smallest minority ever, who have been killed for just existing, have their bodies constantly in others conversations, and are targeted everyday, is genuinely just the most self centered take ever. these terfs pretend to be feminists when in reality they’re just a group with internalized misogyny and a hatred for women who are doing better than them…
the girls at my school have to word their period cramps as 'stomach pain', otherwise they cant lay down in the nurse/get sent home because 'cramps arent a reason to miss class!'
the ONLY difference is that we are womyn. all the sudden our pain isnt real pain, just because men cant relate to this. the second our pain stems from us being female, we cant take a break because these establishments see female pain as secondary to male pain.
i could be having debilitating cramps, but a boy with a stomachache would be prioritized over me because womyn are expected to just take their pain as the normal to not disturb men.
i was in the replies on this and i think they lost their minds.. lesbians cant have ANYTHINGGG
there’s no way this isn’t satire. right?! RIGHT!??
“a guy who genuinely feels their attraction to women is queer/sapphic/lesbian/etc” I can’t do this shit anymore.
BRO FUCKING EXACTLYYYY
LIKE RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T FUCKING CHARITY AND THEY'RE SERIOUS COMMITTMENTS USUALLY
AND ITS RAPE RHETORIC TO REQUIRE SOMEONE TO GIVE SEX REGARDLESS OF REASON
I feel like people aren’t ready for sex if they think someone rejecting them is a hate crime
Exactly this!
The whole aesthetic thing really is a really dystopian commodification of personalities...
i think the biggest capitalist scam is that you can supposedly buy the real you.
"see these clothes? it shows who i really am! this makeup, too! i need plastic surgery so that my face can look like my aesthetic!"
you don't need to buy your true self, it's in your personality not your appearance
always so funny to see Christians and Muslims go at each other's throat on social media cause it's like watching two pugs fight, they try hitting each other but all they do is heavy panting and bump into furniture in the name of defending their ways to oppress women
"None of us are free until every one of is unshackled"
sometimes I feel like we are all glorified whores (although untrue) , that's why men can call any woman a bitch and no one will blink an eye because any sexual encounter makes you unpure, unfit for the picture of a lady -and if you haven't don't any of it because you are waiting for marriage don't woryyy about it.You'll get called a prostitute by your in laws the first moment you guys have a big fight, after all isn't marriage considered a lifetime supply of "free" sexuality exclusively resorved for one person? Some of us have have a wardrobe of silk clothes, some hold positions of extreme power and others hold onto the delusion of consent but we are all a bitch as long as men see us that way, as long as we keep letting them.
there is this girl on Instagram that keeps posting about how she wanted to be a Marine biologist but went to work in the sex industry and as a 18 year old she makes me wanna kill someone... you can see the light leave her eyes as the photos come closer to present
there is this girl on Instagram that keeps posting about how she wanted to be a Marine biologist but went to work in the sex industry and as a 18 year old she makes me wanna kill someone... you can see the light leave her eyes as the photos come closer to present
maybe the next time you're going to "join" a group of people who commit %92 of all crimes you will consider the consequences of being treated like it
sorry since realizing my gender i have zero tolerance for the whole “man hating” angle of being queer i hate i hate it i hate you. stop. you are hurting people.