Academic Validation - Blog Posts
April 29th, 2025 🎀
Going to bed at 1am and waking up at 6am is something I haven't done in a long while, but I am seriously so tired right now. I didn't finish my project last night, so I'm gonna work on it today before I have to go in to work. I requested an extension but haven't received an email back, so otherwise, it's just due tonight. So I don't really have a choice but to continue grinding it out.
Todo Today (April 29th) ✨️
shower + morning skincare 🫧
work on project 💻
psych doc appointment at 12noon 🧠
work 230pm to ~10pm 🍕
shower + nighttime skincare 🫧
come home and work on project some more
be in bed and hopefully asleep by midnight
It's a pretty simple and straightforward day for me thankfully. Doesn't help how tired I am but I'll survive. Some sleep is better than no sleep right now, and I have many redbulls ro help power me thru the next two weeks til I can finally take my break from school and work. May 9th can't come quick enough.
🎶 Song of The Day: Gata Only - FloyyMenor
til next time lovelies 🩷
April 18, 2025 🎀
Hello again lovelies! Life's been too busy to make posts about my days, but rest assured I've kept myself productive and busy with school and work and life in general! I actually had down time this week which was pretty cool, as I usually don't ever have time to rest without guilt lately. But, today's a new day, I don't have work scheduled today, so I'm going to do a bunch of school work and a few household chores today too.
Todo Today (April 18) ✨️
write my mini proposal paper that's due tomorrow night 💻
write and submit extra credit for health psychology 💻
complete assignment from yesterday for health psychology 💻
take notes for chapter 11 health psychology
chapter 14 notes exercise physiology (??)
start FAFSA + email it to stepmom 💻
clean cats litter box 🐈
wipe down bathroom 🧼
night time skincare routine 🫧
wash clothes 🧺
put away all clean laundry 🧺
vacuum bedroom 🧹
wash dishes + put away clean ones 🧼
Should definitely be a good day today. I might go and get a smiley piercing today, I'm unsure if I really am or not yet. And I need to plan my next tattoo since I recently got some extra money, and I've been craving some new ink. Lots of stuff, lots of stuff!
til next time lovelies 🩷
April 8th, 2025 🎀
Yesterday was more productive than I thought it was going to be and I am so happy about it. It was honestly a really good, really tiring day, and I ended the day feeling very confident and very good about things.
What I Accomplished (April 7th) 👑
worked on study material for health psychology for ~1 hour
worked on study material for exercise physiology for ~45 minutes
worked 230pm - 1030pm
made a list of books to buy from thrift books for when I get paid (very excited to purchase them)
talked with a co worker for ~1 hour after work
Todo Today (April 8th) ✨️
lower body gym workout + 30 min treadmill walk 💪
wash dishes 🧼
clean bedroom 🧹
clean bathroom 🫧
daily journaling 📖
study/work on study material for health psychology 💻
study/work on study material for exercise physiology 💻
email financial aid 📧
email one of my professors 📧
solidify my courses for next semester (I register on thursday) 🧠
start working on FAFSA (and send to step mom for completion) 📨
complete assignment 10.2 for exercise physiology 💻
wash a load of laundry 🧺
Looking forward to having a good day today, since I don't work! Work has been slightly stressful lately, so I'm very happy that today is my day off.
Also, help a girl out with her language studies! Spanish and Korean tied on my last poll, so help me decide between the two!
🎶 Song of The Day: Mona Lisa - J Hope
a repeat song for me, I love love love it so much
til next time lovelies 🩷
April 7th, 2025 🎀
My brain did not let me study or do much this weekend and it was seriously bugging me, but I'm trying not to beat myself up about it because it was that time of month and lately it has been messing with me hard whenever it's that time of month. Plus, work was really tiring this weekend and I've been a little stressed out about some things.
What I Accomplished (April 6th) 👑
completed and passed a quiz for one of my online classes
worked 9am to 3pm
took a 40 min nap on the couch
worked on my study guide for health psychology for ~10min
chatted with my roommates for a while
Not the most productive day yesterday, but it was not a bad day. I was super tired and anxious yesterday, but I had a decent day regardless.
Todo Today (April 7) ✨️
study for exercise physiology exam 📝
make study quizlet for health psych 💻
work on study guide for health psych ✏️
work 230pm to ~930pm ☕️
double check on classes before registering for next semester 🫣
skincare before work 🚿
skincare after work 🧴
make to do list for tomorrow 💡
Not an extensive list, but just stuff I need to get done. My health psych exam is Thursday and I believe my exercise physiology exam opens on Friday. I have a couple of small projects coming due next week, and some assignments that need completing later this week. It's lock in time now that the semester is almost over.
🎶 Song of the Day: ExtraL - Jenne ft Doechii
til next time lovelies 🩷
April 2nd, 2025 🎀
Yesterday was not a good day. I was able to get a decent amount of chores done but I ended up having a sort of breakdown about some stuff going on in my life, I cried several times and ended up not being able to really focus on anything. I stayed up way later than I needed to and honestly just tried to be kind to myself because stuff feels heavy sometimes.
What I Accomplished (April 1st) 👑
washed dishes
put away clean laundry
ran another load of laundry
washed my towels, blanket, and pillow cases
tidied up around my room
took out three bags of trash
ordered groceries
watched a little bit of Attack on Titan
listed more items for sale on my depop
Yeah, not my most productive day, but I don't want to beat myself up about it. Stuff happens, and I just gotta keep my head above water and call that a win sometimes.
ToDo Today (April 2nd) ✨️
complete assignment 6 for one of my online classes (it's due tomorrow) 💻
work on chapter 10 notes for exercise physiology (at least a little bit) ✏️
make a study quizlet for exercise physiology
make a study quizlet for health psychology
gratitude journal 📖
morning + night skincare 🚿
work a night shift, 230pm to ~930pm ☕️
I need to start drastically limiting my caffeine intake. I definitely think the amount of caffeine I consume is unhealthy and is contributing to my heightened levels of anxiety and uneasiness. It will definitely do me some good to make some changes with that for sure.
I still haven't decided what language to pick back up yet, but I'm not in any rush to make a decision just yet either. I need to look at what classes to take next semester, if I'm switching colleges or not. And I need to fill out my FAFSA. But those will be tasks for another day right now.
🎶 Song of The Day: Bulls in The Bronx - PTV
til next time lovelies 🩷
April 1st, 2025 🎀
April already? Time is flying, I feel like we barely entered 2025 and now it's April? Feels unreal almost.
I have no work today, so I'm going to spend as much time as I can on stuff that I really need and really want to do! I've done pretty good at getting stuff done lately, especially with school stuff, so I really want to keep that sort of momentum going to try and be more successful as the school semester comes to an end.
Todo Today (April 1st) ✨️
wash dishes 🫧
put away clean laundry 👕
wash bedding 🧼
clean room 🧹
clean cat litter box 🐱
take out trashes 🗑
complete assignment 6 for one of my online classes 💻
complete chapter 10 notes for exercise physiology ✏️
complete chapter 9 notes for health psychology ✏️
complete assignment 10.2 for exercise physiology 💻
make study quizlet for health psychology
make study quizlet for exercise physiology
make a grocery list to order 🍞
daily journaling 📖
read 1 chapter of Attached 📚
night time shower + skincare 🚿
stretch and/or light plates workout 💪
Seems like a lot at first glance, but I have all day to do this stuff, so I definitely have the means to get it all done.
What I Did Yesterday (March 31st) 👑
completed chapter 9 quiz for exercise physiology
worked on chapter 10 notes for exercise physiology
completed assignment 10.1 for exercise physiology
washed a load of laundry
dropped off two packages at the post office
finished paying off my rent
worked from 230pm to 945pm
I feel like that's a good amount of stuff to have gotten done yesterday, given I really wasn't feeling like doing much. Work had been so tiring lately, I'm almost glad the semester is ending because of the toll that work is taking on me physically now. On the bright side, I should be getting promoted in April, so hopefully, things ease up once that happens.
I want to start studying languages again, and of course I'm stuck between my favorite three: Spanish, Korean, or Japanese. I have lots of Japanese study resources, I live in a high population of Spanish speakers, and I listen to lots of music and media in Korean. Which one(s) do I start with to ease back into it? Pick one? All three? Help a girl out!!
🎶 Song of The Day: like Jennie - Jennie
til next time lovelies 🩷
March 30th, 2025 🎀
I need to start taking and using my own photos on here, I feel like these pinterest ones don't do it for me anymore. but we'll see how successful I am at maintaining that.
I did not finish as much as I wanted yesterday, mostly because I came home from work and immediately began the process of bleaching and dying my hair purple. It took about 6 hours total and looking back, I definitely could've spent some of the wait time taking notes or reading, so at least I know to be more mindful of that. (I dye my hair at home)
What I Accomplished Yesterday (March 29) ✨️
spent 55min working on Chapter 9 notes for exercise physiology (need to complete them and start chapter 10 ASAP today)
worked 9am to 3pm
washed dishes
dyed my hair purple
ordered necessities from the store
night time skincare + showered
So yeah, it was not the most productive day I don't think, but today has the opportunity to be a better day for that stuff, so I'll make use of the time I have today in a better way.
Todo Today (March 30th) 🌻
finish chapter 9 notes for exercise physiology 📖
begin chapter 10 notes for exercise physiology 📖
complete one assignment from my course assignments list 💻
work 9am to 3pm 🍵
do some journaling ✏️
read a chapter of a book (probably Attached, or Way of Kings) 📚
night time skincare + oral hygiene 🚿
set myself up for the gym in the morning ☀️
I really hope I won't be ad tired today as I have been lately. it's seriously not fun coming home from work exhausted or waking up and not wanting to move because I'm still so tired. But I know I'll get some stuff done today for sure. Luckily, none of my current todos have a strict deadline, so I can go easy on myself if needed.
🎶 Song of the Day: Hot - Le Sserafim
👑 Quote of The Day: You're still doing better than you think you are
til next time lovelies 🩷
March 29, 2025 🎀
Last night, I was decently productive to the point where I was actually proud of what I was able to accomplish. It was a nice feeling. I'm still grappling with the thoughts of what to do in regards to continuing my education, if I go the community college (Medical Assisting) route or continue with my university (Nutrition and Dietetics), despite the possible financial issues I'll be facing.
What I Accomplished Yesterday (March 28th) ✨️
did a hydrating face mask (it was amazing)
washed and put away a load of laundry
paid my rent
wrote out some chapter 8 notes + chapter 8 vocabulary notes for health and exercise psychology
wrote out a solid chunk of my chapter 9 notes for exercise physiology (need to finish chapter 9 and start chapter 10 asap, but that's what I get for being 2 chapters behind)
journaled about some stuff going on in my head (mostly the continuing education stuff that's been plaguing my thoughts)
studied/did schoolwork for a total of 122 minutes
looked at potential classes I could take + other options for switching to the community college here in town
Yesterday was definitely a decent day in terms of stuff I was able to get done, but I also know I slacked off A LOT. More than I am comfortable with having slacked off. I'm slowly getting back into my school grind mindset, especially with the semester coming to an end soon. I really want to get my grades back up where I need them to be and end the semester on a high note, with a good GPA and a sense of pride in knowing I tried.
Todo Today (March 29th) 🌷
work on (and finish) chapter 9 notes for exercise physiology ✏️
begin chapter 10 notes for exercise physiology ✏️
complete assignment chapter 9.1 for exercise physiology 💻
complete assignment chapter 9.2 for exercise physiology 💻
order necessities from the store 🧻
work 9am to 3pm ☕️
daily journaling 📖
read 1 chapter of Attached 📚
wash dishes 🫧 (the sink is full, and I don't like it)
tidy up around my bedroom 🧹
night time skincare + shower 🚿
make my to-do list for tomorrow ✨️
My goal is to get all of this done today, and I have a strong feeling I'll be successful as long as I keep my head in the game and remember that I have priorities and things need to get done. If I don't do the things, then the things don't get done, and I can't have that.
🎶 Song of the Day: Is This Love - XG
👑 Quote of the Day: What if it all works out?
til next time lovelies 🩷
So, I might be switching from my current bachelors degree at my university to pursuing an associate at the local community college for medical assisting. And I'm terrified.
I will be losing significant financial aid in the coming fall semester, which is definitely a driving factor in my decision to possibly switch over, as community college is much cheaper here. I'll be able to reapply to my university afterward to continue my bachelors degree in nutrition, so there's that too.
I guess I just nervous about making such a big switch. I've never been the best with phlebotomy stuff, which I'll need both clinical and in class experience with as I pursue the associate for medical assisting.
Any words of encouragement, or advice from people who've made a similar ish type of switch? I'm super nervous, nothing has been set in stone or done yet, but I'd love to hear from people who've done anything similar.
Thank you <3
TODO ASAP
research internship/volunteer opportunities relevant to my field of study
research possible scholarship and financial aid opportunities for summer classes
research colleges for my future masters program + decide what to pursue my masters in
narrow down my class search and focus for my education as it continues
If anyone has any advice or tips for everything I have to accomplish listed here, I am all ears as I am kind of lost on what to do and know I need to take my education more seriously.
Daily Check-in: September 12, 2024 😴
Some pictures of my school work set up in the campus library, which is actually my preffered place of study! I'm always the most productive in there! Sorry about the inconsistent daily check ins, I get home from work some nights and just pass out right away, I'm so tired.
🦄 What I Accomplished
completed and submitted my lab 21 and 22 pre lab assignments
completed my homework for chapter 4 of my accounting class
studied for my upcoming accounting exam
did my morning skincare
worked a ~8.5 hour shift
booked a 2nd tattoo appointment
got matched with a Dietetic mentor
sent my boss an email regarding a work situation with another coworker
decided on a time to go to lunch with my friend for her birthday on Friday
🐌 Random Stuff Of The Day
felt really emotional all day, cried several times
had a really good bagel sandwich for breakfast
drank so much water
finally made my next payment to my health coach, and am waiting to recieve my new workout plans and meal plan!
debating changing my tattoo idea for my appointment in october
requested time off work for the days my man is supposed to come see me 🤞🤞🤞
had a super healthy meal for dinner (grilled chicken, lots of broccoli, and a small amount of potato)
🩷 Stuff For Tomorrow, Friday, Sept 13th
study japanese, please girl, you gotta learn some more before your lesson on friday
email Dietetic mentor back asap
therapy appointment ??
lunch with your friend for her birthday!!
work a ~7 hour shift
have a good day <3
that's all for now! will try to post more consistently!
til next time lovelies 🩷
Daily Check-in: September 9th, 2024 🍂
This weekend was rough. My grandma passed away and I found out at the end of a 13 hour work shift, so it made for a difficult night to say the least. But today was a decent day. Got lots of steps and had an overall pretty good day.
📚 What I Accomplished
completed lab 19 pre lab for chemistry
complete 8/10 assignments for my intro to business class
took a nap
did my morning and night skincare
journaled in the morning
filled out my planner for the week
booked a tattoo appointment for October
🎨 Random Stuff From The Day
got a ride to and from lab with one of my roommates and found out she's actually a giant sweetheart, her and I are both just two awkward people
ordered taco bell for dinner cause why not
need to start taking creatine again, but I've stopped working out cause life. need to get back to it
am going to pull extra hours at work cause I definitely wanna make sure I can pay for my tattoo and all my bills
forgot to take my meds, whoops
🍉 Stuff For Tuesday, Sept 10th
go to accounting class
complete more homework
study japanese
morning + night skincare
work a ~8 hour shift
go to the gym with my friend after work
have a good day <3
that's all for yesterday. not much to speak on for the day tbh but it was a good day. I definitely didn't do as much as I had wanted but that's okay, cause life happens.
til next time lovelies 🩷
First Impressions 🎀
I've had 4 of my 5 classes so far (one doesn't start til october) and I definitely have some thoughts on them, so I thought I'd share my first impressions!
Principals of Accounting II:
the professor seems a bit disorganized, nervous, and semi chaotic but I like his energy
so many people in southern attire, I was a bit surprised
might take a decent amount of study time and energy to keep my grade up in the class, but I'm always up for a challenge and I definitely know I'm capable
gotta figure out a time efficient study routine for this class
Learning (Psychology)
professor has an accent, no idea where he's from, but it's a cool and thankfully understandable accent
feels very content heavy. I definitely want to buy the textbook for this class
need to find a way to stay awake, that's one of the classrooms that make me sleepy
that professor likes to talk for sure (1 hour and 15 min of just the syllabus? man's can talk)
Integrated Survey of Organic and Bio Chemistry
the professor is definitely a science guy, him being the professor makes perfect sense
i really like how he explains and teaches
appreciate that all the content needed is already posted to our class online and all the slides are available already
I love science based classes because I know how to succeed in them and this one seems no different
I have a friend in the class so that's nice!
Intro To Business (Online)
lots of content
lots to do
I gotta make sure I time manage for this class cause otherwise, I'm gonna fall behind
an introduction video?? why not just a discussion post?? ahhhhh
Overall, with working full time, this is going to be an incredibly stressful, incredibly busy semester, but I'm so up for the challenge, and I know I can do it. I just gotta study efficiently, time manage properly, and keep disciplined. I WILL be successful.
til next time lovelies 🩷
What to do during breaks? (as in no school)
In terms of preparing for the next semester or year…
Hey Anon! :D
How To Productively Use Time During Breaks For Preparing
These are some tips that I've used after experimenting with a lot of things
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Not More Than 2–3 Hours
I recommend this because you have a high possibility of burning out during school weeks if you even study during breaks. So, this is why just three hours is more than enough. Spend your time enjoying too.
Concentrate On Basics
This is one of the best ways to spend your breaks. If you're weak in a particular subject [Mine was Accounts], I spent my summer and my term breaks strengthening my accounting basics.
It helped so much when school started because everyone was trying to catch up on the advanced topics, but I could straightaway start with the year's materials. So, build your basics or revise that year's topics. Most of the subjects are just built in layers. So if you learn something in junior year, then it will likely appear in senior year but a bit more advanced.
Watch Concept Videos [Basics or Coming Term/Semester]
You could go through the syllabus for the next term or year and, based on that, watch videos related to that on YouTube. You can first go through the coming year's topics, and then you can decide if you're confident with new topics or if you still haven't figured out the basics. But these really help.
Prepare Cheat Sheets In Advance
If you get your hands on the coming year's textbook, then go through the chapters and write all the formulas or theorems [Shorten them]. Those are your cheat sheets for the whole term/year. Great for revision. You can even start practicing with this, but it's good to have these cheat sheets.
Complete Language Papers
I had two languages all throughout high school. And this trick always worked for me. A week before school starts, I'd literally sit and complete reading through my English and Arabic textbooks. I didn't do the exercises, but I completed all the lessons and sometimes even had short notes of the story ready. It doesn't take much time to complete your language syllabus. I always recommend this.
Tackle Your Grammar
Take it a step further [if you want] and revise or learn new grammar topics. I say this because, honestly, grammar takes some time to soak in, so by the time school starts, you'll have confidence with your language papers. Which honestly makes your work easier in the long run.
Improve Math [If You Have A Number Based Paper]
If you have any paper that is number-based, then work on your mental math. Practice with it. It helps during exams and saves a lot of time. Literally. Especially if you're not allowed to use a calculator. Memorize the square and cube roots from 1 to 10. Or anything else that matters.
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Do take time to rest because, honestly, this is the time you'll get to rest. So, enjoy too xD
Other than that, I hope this helps you :)
I think nobody says this, but it's completely okay to take up what you actually want as a major. It doesn't matter if people tell you that you have the capability to do more or that you don't. If you want to do a particular major. Go for it. And I'm telling you, you'll definitely ask yourself, "Am I doing this right?" but I think it's worth following something you're passionate about. You don't have to give justification for doing what you love.
Friendly Advice
Decide your major early. And don't tell anyone about it. At least not your teachers or people who will change your mind. It's application week here, and I was close to banging my head against the wall. It's not supposed to be difficult until you make it difficult. So, do what you wanna do. You do know it. You just need to shut off the noise that keeps telling you what you "have" to do.
It's better to work for it and fail than not try at all.
Because yes, you may see people who work less than you, who don't get up early in the morning and get work done, who don't have equal passion towards their ambition and yet they succeed. They make it to the top. And I just want to say, It is totally okay.
Your feelings are valid. Your jealousy is valid. Your emotions are valid. But that does not mean your reactions may be valid too. You cannot be angry at them for it. But you can learn from your mistakes and be better.
Things I Wish Teachers Would Understand
I have a life outside of school. I may be going through health problems or mental health issues or family troubles or financial issues. Literally, I can name so many things and of course, you won't consider it because the only thing you notice is that how I've not done my homework or how I got low grades in my exams.
Grades don't define me. Or my efforts. Or my self-worth. Just because I get high grades doesn't mean I'm more smart or disciplined. And just because I get low grades doesn't mean I'm dumb or lazy.
Mental health issues are real. Really real. And they are hard to deal with.
Learning disabilities are also real. You can't just get out of it. Working hard doesn't fix it. It's a real issue.
Being an introvert is not bad. IT IS NOT BAD. Period. I do not have to speak more in class to prove that I'm paying attention. It just means that I do not want to speak. I'm fine with being quiet.
I can forget things. I can forget that assignment that was due, I can forget to do the homework. And I can definitely forget about the test.
The things you say matters. Even if it is sarcasm. Even if it is a dismissal. Sometimes, it makes me stay up late at night. Sometimes it just stays with me throughout the day. So, yes. You should speak a bit more carefully.
Grades don't show my full effort. Sometimes, I try so hard and I still don't get it right. And when you say that I should try harder? That does shatter a small part of me, not because you told me that, it just makes me feel that I'm the one who's damn stupid and that no matter how much effort I put in the work, it doesn't matter if the grades are not there.
As a student, I will of course prefer some subjects over the others. It is not a personal attack. And it is not an invitation for you to tell me something sarcastic about it.
Calling out a student on their mistakes in front of the whole class or our juniors or seniors or any other teachers is not okay. It's embarrassing to us and makes us feel bad.
Small praise does mean something. Honestly. I remember every good thing a teacher told me because I'll be honest, most don't say very nice things.
Please don't try to force things on us. Whether it be competitions, extracurriculars or anything really. It doesn't feel good.
And if there are some students who misbehave? That doesn't mean the whole class is bad. And no, collective punishments don't help.
I also appreciate when you try. Like, really. I respect you because you teach dozens of classes a day and still show up to our classes with neutral moods. You have a lot of patience for dealing with us.
I really appreciate your stories, advice and the small tips that you give about life now and then. It helps. And yes, I do remember.
I also feel that sometimes that both our expectations come crashing down. You expect us to do good. We expect you to be supportive and passionate. And it's okay to let go of your expectations sometimes.
And I know you have stresses too. You, too, have health problems, mental health issues and family issues, financial issues. I know you have the pressure of making everyone pass through the year and delivering good grades. And I have to say, I understand you. I really do.
I'm writing this because I've had so many teachers expect so much from me. And I'll be honest, that pressure broke me. Seriously broke me. I also respect teachers a lot, but it also doesn't mean I appreciate their behaviors or actions. You make up the world that we currently live in and I say this, not just as a student but as a person.
(P.S. This has been in my drafts from a long time. This was like peak exam + pressure + stress season, so don't mind the not so small rant. And no, I don't have a personal grudge against teachers.)
Questions To Ask Before Choosing Your Major
Choosing your major is a pain, a real pain. It's the perfect time when every one, and I mean every one, decides that they should have a say in the matter when they literally don't.
Here are some questions to ask yourself which major you should choose. And I won't just cover general questions like "Is it tough?" or "Would I like it?"
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What could you talk about for hours without getting bored?
What is something that you do which makes you lose track of time while doing it?
What makes you feel alive and purposeful?
What do you enjoy working with? People? Words? Ideas? Or Systems?
What is a subject that comes to you easily?
What are the assignments that don't drain you?
What jobs are commonly associated with this major?
What do people who have this major actually do every day?
Can you talk to alumni or professors in this field and get their opinions?
Does this major offer flexibility to shift careers later in life?
Is this major aligned with who you are becoming or want to become?
Does this major offer room to grow and explore other interests
Could you combine two interests into a double major or minor?
Are you okay not having all the answers right now?
If everything changed tomorrow, would you still pursue it?
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I hope this really helps. I only included questions that I asked myself while choosing. But here's the tip. After you choose, there will be people who will want to change your mind and there will be times when you'd want to revaluate, so these questions would remind you what you thought when your head was clearer.
And I know this may look like hyping this particular topic a bit, but I'll be honest, I know many people who hate their majors but can't do anything about it. We'll spend at least 3 years with this, and I think it's better to feel that you chose this and actually like it rather than choosing something you hate and not liking it at all.
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Friendly Advice
Decide your major early. And don't tell anyone about it. At least not your teachers or people who will change your mind. It's application week here, and I was close to banging my head against the wall. It's not supposed to be difficult until you make it difficult. So, do what you wanna do. You do know it. You just need to shut off the noise that keeps telling you what you "have" to do.
I want to be completely honest.
There are going to be people who are better than you.
There will be times when someone is going to get ahead of you
And there will be times when you worked hard, and you didn't achieve it.
And yes, it is fine. Completely fine. You are allowed to be disappointed. You are allowed to be sad. And you are allowed to get pissed.
It's the brutal truth that you may not get what you want all the time. And you should learn to be okay with that.
hey there i’m taking ap bio and are exam is coming up do you have any tips for cramming and how to be motivated for subjects you don’t like. thanks :)
Hey Anon! :)
Thanks for the ask :)
I did a similar post for cramming ⇒ How To Cram For Exams. You can refer to that post.
So, I'll make this a bit specific. Bio can mostly be learnt through memorization. There's a lot of repetition and practice. Here are some tips:
Build concept maps. Connect all individual concepts to the main concept and do it in the most simple way (or detailed, whatever works for you)
Review it from time to time. If the exam is weeks away, review it every day for a week then review it thrice a week and the remaining days, write tests. If the exam is in like 5–6 days, then review it in the morning, write tests and then review at night after correcting your mistakes.
Keep repeating the main keywords and practice writing them down.
(I can only think of these ways to study bio because honestly I haven't studied bio since I was in 7th grade. So, I hope this helps <33)
I'll do, for motivation for the subjects you don't like.
How To Study For Subjects You Don't Like
Accept You Don't Like It
It's totally alright if you don't like a particular subject. Honestly, I hated my subjects in high school. I wanted to take history, geography and political science with computers, but my school didn't offer those. So, I was stuck with accounts, eco and business studies. I hated it at the beginning, but i knew that if i base my emotions on my studies for the next two years, i'd never pass high school.
So, accept that you don't like it and think of a positive outcome after that. Mine was the fact that I'll never study those subjects again, at least not for a grade.
Rewards
I'd always use this whenever i encounter hard topics. Keep a reward you get after completing that topic. Make it irresistible. Chocolates were mine xD. It makes it awfully easier.
Focus On What Is Important
You don't have to study everything, there's always some topics that are more important than the others. Like, seriously. Think about some topics that came up in every exam before or the topics that the teacher put extra emphasis on. Tackle them first.
Revise What You Know First
This gives a good kickstart. And confidence. Spend the first 5-10 mins of every study session revising something you already know and then start with the new topics.
Practice Papers
I can never emphasize this enough. The best way to prepare for any exam is just do practice questions or previous year questions. You will learn a lot of things. The topics that are important or repeated. The topics that are never asked.
Tip: Since you have your exams in some days, do just 3 practice papers.
Improvement Sheets
Do this at least once (after the practice papers) and note everything. How much time you take to answer each question. What are your mistakes. Which section is your weakest. Note them down and most importantly, your overall improvements you should make.
For me, I did this for accounts, and it gave me so much clarity, especially the improvements. I used to go through this improvement sheet before my actual exam and i did not repeat even a single mistake again.
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Additional Posts That Might Be Helpful:
How To Self Study
How To Study Concept-Oriented Subjects
How To Study For Longer Hours
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how to cram study for AP exams? 🥲
Hey dear Anon!
Thanks for the ask :)
How To Cram For Exams
Sleep. Hydration. Meals = Must
Snacking and hydration are a must. I recommend light snacking like nuts or fruits or some chocolates. I wouldn't go for heavy meals because they always make me feel sleepy.
Sleep is a must. Don't sacrifice your sleep for studying. During exams, 7–8 hours of sleep is a must. Don't stay awake after 12, you'll regret it. And sleep is different from breaks. You should not consider them the same.
Division Of Subjects
Every subject is learnt and graded differently. You can’t use the same study techniques for every subject you have. You have mostly 3 types of subjects:
Memorization based
Practical/Question based
Theory/Essay based
You use different study techniques for different subjects. Memorization based subjects require more revision. Practical/Question based subjects require more practice. Theory based subjects require you to learn how to format your information.
Read up more: Division Of Subjects
Note Skimming
First, take a topic. Try to remember 5 points, if you can't then just glance through it once. And then keep repeating the process until you know everything relevant for it. It works really well if you haven't picked up your textbooks in a while.
Practice Papers + Improvement Sheets
Create a fake exam environment. Sit on your desk with a timer, take a question paper and act as if you're actually writing the exam. Do this at least once and note everything. How much time you take to answer each question. What are your mistakes. Which section is your weakest. Note them down and most importantly, your overall improvements you should make.
For me, I did this for accounts, and it gave me so much clarity, especially the improvements. I used to go through this improvement sheet before my actual exam and I did not repeat even a single mistake again. The trick is to keep updating the sheet by adding improvements from your actual exams too.
Question Method
No matter how well you know your content, if you can't put it in words appropriately, then you won't get your grades.
Now, it's hard to remember every single thing, so here's a technique...
What? When? Who? Why? How? What's the use?
The basic information for any topic would be the answer to these questions. If you remember this and ca answer to it then you've prepared well enough.
If you want to read up more about it, check out: Question Method
Break It Down
Not your chapter. I mean the topic itself. Line by line if you have to. I did this exact thing for accounts whenever i had to do ratios. It was a pain. An unwanted pain. I couldn't understand anything. But i sat down one day and read every single line of the textbook for that topic. I made what i call "Line Visuals". This is simple.
You read a paragraph => You don't understand anything.
Read every line => Draw it
Understand the key terms used there
And then draw a single visual representation for that entire topic.
I'll guarantee you, you will understand it. Review it once a day for a week and then once a week.
Mnemonics + Story Method
Learn with these. It helps you to remember easily. Make catchy phrases and stories to remember points/facts. These are like the building blocks of studying anything. Stick small notes to your books writing the phrases beside the topic so the next time you want to revise it, it's easy.
If you want to read more about it, check out: How To Study Using The "Story Method"
Teach What You Learn
You learn the most when you teach. I had taken my friends for this. Study and teach it to them. This helps because you have to have a clear understanding of the material first rather to teach them and you may end up with some important feedback. Your friends might ask a specific question you didn't know the answer to and now all of you are trying to perfect yourself with the material.
Random Testing + Book Testing
Random testing is what you do as the final blow. You randomly answer questions that you're thinking about the topic. Book testing is basically when you open any page of the textbook, see the topic and literally say everything relevant to it. You can even write it down.
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Hi! I was wondering if you had any tips for studying consistently, especially with burnout?
I have an awful habit of studying a lot on one day then avoiding it and not even looking at my notes for 3 or so days after then repeat. i'm starting fifth year soon so this cycle can't continue because it will not end well for mw or my grades
Heyy :) Thanks for the ask.
I just answered a similar ask like this so i think my answer is pretty much the same.
How To Avoid Burnout While Studying
But you technically asked how to study while in a burnout so i'll add a few additional tips. I hope this helps :)
How To Study / Work During A Burnout
Micro Goals
Write down your micro goals. By micro goals i mean the goals that are broken down from bigger goals. For example, my first task was to complete chapter 4 in accountancy fully. Instead of completing it fully and contributing to the burnout, break it down. Divide chapters into 4 parts and complete each part throughout the day. This is more manageable and doesn't make you feel overwhelmed.
Watch Concept Videos
Whenever i'm too tired to study or revise from my notes, videos always help. I did this mostly for accountancy, economics and business studies. YouTube has a variety of videos and make the most use of it. It really helps during exams because it gives me some leverage of knowing some extra points that are in the textbook, but most haven't studied it so use it to your advantage.
1% Progress Everyday > 100% Progress Once A Week
I really feel that even one percent progress every day is better than giving your best on the weekend. I usually divide my subjects throughout the week. I don't exceed more than 2 subjects per day because i did have extra assignments and projects to catch up to. This is one important rule i really followed.
Find The Stressor And Find A Way Through It
Find your major stressor. And try to go around it as much as possible. You have to navigate around everything. Most common stressors would be tests, exams, pressure or extra curriculars.
I had ignored every single test and just winged it because one our teachers never corrected it and two i was focusing on my finals. I didn't even care for my midterms, i experimented with them. I didn't study for term finals because i wanted to test how much i actually remembered. When the pressure got too much at the end of final year, i just didn't go to school after the attendance closed even though they were having revision classes.
I don't know if it's the same for you but there is always a way to minimize the impact. Find stressors and try to make it easier for yourself.
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Additional Posts That Might Be Helpful:
How To Study For Longer Hours
An Absolute Guide To Manage Your Time And Energy For School
Floor To Ceiling Method
How To Study Multiple Subjects
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hey! do you have any tips for avoiding burnout when there’s just so much to do? i usually go really hard the first few days of the week and then crash for the rest, which ends up making me fall behind and feel worse. i’m really struggling to find a balance between staying productive and not completely draining myself :D
Hey Anon! :) Thanks for the ask :D
You can also refer to How To Study / Work During A Burnout
How To Avoid Burnout While Studying
Periodic Gaps
Breaks are seriously important. I don't follow pomodoro and it doesn't really work for me. I recommend taking breaks when you are actually tired. It doesn't matter if you work straight for 1 hour and then take a break. I feel like it's better than taking unnecessary breaks.
Snacking / Hydration
Snacking and hydration are a must. I recommend light snacking like nuts or fruits or some chocolates. I wouldn't go for heavy meals because they always make me feel sleepy.
Breaks
Breaks should be taken when you start feeling tired. Don't push yourself. The best way to recuperate is to rest. Appropriate break time is important. I usually divide my study time by half and that is my break time.
Break = Study Time / 2
Sleep
Sleep is a must. Don't sacrifice your sleep for studying. During exams, 7-8 hours of sleep is a must. Don't stay awake after 12, you'll regret it. And sleep is different from breaks. You should not consider them the same.
"Off Days"
This concept worked well for me because i'll be honest, it was relaxing. Have "off days". At least 1 day per week. On this day, you don't work, you don't study. You just relax. And I know you may say, "I don't have time to rest" or "I'll fall behind" but it's better than forcing yourself to work and grind and then ending up not working for days. So, have off days.
Tip: I'll recommend Saturdays because it's perfect for the day off. On Sunday you'll be worrying about the work due on Monday. The rest of the days wouldn't give you rest because of school.
Prioritize
You need not do all your work at the beginning of the week. Work should be spread out over days. Prioritizing work is what needs to be done. Write everything that should be done (or make a mental check list) and then write the due dates for all the assignments and then align your energy and study sessions accordingly.
Manage Energy
Managing your energy is quite easy. You divide your tasks based on three categories. Low level. Middle level. High level.
Low level tasks include reviewing notes and flashcards.
Middle level tasks include assignments and projects.
High level tasks include learning a topic from scratch, solving a practice paper.
Now figure out your energy level tasks and accordingly align your tasks to your energy. It's easier than forcing yourself to do a high-level energy task when you're on low energy.
These tasks may be different for everyone. A high-level task for you may be middle or low level for someone else.
Burnout Effect
In one way, burnout is good. Honestly, some people's highest point is 30 mins or an hour. They find burnout creeping in after some time had passed. And that is why, if you want to reach at least two hours of studying. You need to push that limit. Every single time. Try moving 30 mins every week. Your max limit is 1 hour. Then this week, study for 1 hr 30 mins. The next week, study for 2hrs. then 2hr 30 mins. Do it for a few weeks.
If you don't push yourself to the max limit. Then you'll never actually reach your goal.
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Additional Posts That May Be Helpful
How To Study For Longer Hours
An Absolute Guide To Manage Your Time And Energy For School
Floor To Ceiling Method
How To Study Multiple Subjects
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Asks are still open. I'm literally free all day xD
I'm kinda running out of ideas, my brain's been fried these days. So, if you have any topic that you're interested in regarding high school or generally studying or anything, don't be shy to send an ask. I seriously need some ideas
How To Study Using The "Story Method"
One of the most effective study techniques I've used for the past 2-3 years has been this. People remember stories more than normal facts or random pieces of data. Stories allow you to link different facts together and make it easier for you to process.
The easiest way to do this is using "FTF" (First, Then, Finally).
First, the main character (you or anyone else you imagine) will start on a journey. That's scene one. You will need to associate some points to this scene. This will mostly include the overall concept. Basic understanding.
Then, the main character will face a problem. This will include all the major questions revolving around the topic.
Finally, the main character will find the answers. Let's break it down more.
Determine Your Characters And Scene
Depending on what you are studying, choose your characters and scenes. If you're studying chemistry? Imagine that you are the lead scientist who made some error during one of their experiments which made them go into a deep sleep and now the whole world is sleeping and you are the only one who can reverse it. Make new stories. Make them wild. Add dragons. Dialogues can be a few points too.
Read And Make Bullet Points
First, read and refer to various reading materials for the specific topic. And then jot down the main points before underlining the keywords. Now using these keywords, connect it to the story. You will get new ideas and trust me, it will get easier after some time.
The first thing to do after reading the passage or topic, find something that reminds you of something... it may be anything from fictional characters to actors to books, tv shows, movies, literally anything!!
Make A Chain
When you're learning, the best way to remember things is to make a chain out of each topic and it's subdivisions/points/headings. It acts in the same way as a link, you'll connect one link with another and you've got your chain.
You got 3 scenes for different points? Then connect them together.
Write And Relate
Then write down the points. Give one main keyword to each scene and write it down in the margin of your notes or textbook. Review it every day for a week. And then once a week until you can remember every detail of the topic.
Come Up With The Name
Split the word and see if you can come up with a name for the whole story. Keep it simple and make it memorable. Assign one story to each topic.
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Hey, hi. I wanted to reach out to tell you that I have never been able to study, but your tips seem amazingly helpful. I'm in my 30s and considering maybe trying school again (will be my 5th try) to get a teaching certificate. I don't know yet if I'll do it or not, it's very daunting, but finding your blog makes things seem a little more manageable.
All that said, I also wanted to check if you were okay with someone as old as me following you. I'm not planning to interact, I just want to reblog your tips to my "learn things" sideblog @learningtoletgo
Hello :)
First of all, I am so glad that my posts have been helpful. I really appreciate this, like seriously. And second, i hope that you get the certificate. Keep trying. It's honestly so brave that you keep trying again. I hope it works out for you <33
Lastly, of course I'm okay with you following me! You're free to reblog and interact too! Feel free to :)
Hi thanks for your informative posts! I am struggling with my studies and I really don't understand what the goal of studying should be. How do you actually study? And what usually is the aim to achieve? This is not about motivation btw.
Hey Anon!
First of all, i'm glad you like my posts, really appreciate it :)
What Is The Goal Of Studying?
It literally depends on you.
Entirely on your perception.
If you think studying is useless, then it will be useless. I personally would advise you to study for yourself. To be better. And to sharpen your skills. Don't study just because you have to, don't study because you need to. Study because you actually want to.
It may not be a problem related to motivation but it definitely can be a problem about purpose. You have no idea why you study and that may be the main problem. You haven't tied the act of studying to an actual emotion.
For me, the only way I pushed forward through high school was to remember some main purposes of mine.
Get into a good college (that has the lowest fees)
Get into a degree i love
Actually explore things without the hindrance of getting good grades
Purposes will differ from one person to another. Literally.
Goals are achieved by purposes. Have a strong purpose. Make it worthwhile.
So, How Do We Actually Study?
This also differs from person to person. You're asking a subjective question. I'll be honest. Studying is actually easy. Really easy. You just have to stick to the act long enough.
Let me break it down. You want to start getting your grades up, but you don't know how to because you just don't know the purpose of it. So,
1. Replace "Study" with "Learn"
You don't have to study. Studying is a repetitive job. Stuck in memorization and practice. You learn things that literally won't benefit you in real life (especially maths). But that is the whole negative aspect of it, you know how i see it? Like, i'm learning something new. It always excites me. I don't study for an exam, i learn for myself because i just love the prospect of knowing things.
Approach learning with curiosity and not obligation.
2. Chase Deep Understanding
Many students learn. They get good grades. But. If you ask them to show how one thing links to the other? Nope, they can't connect even simple concepts together as if whatever they've learned is completely unrelated when it's actually not. They can't apply the things they learn about. So, learn to apply.
The goal is not to recite but to internalize. Turn your curiosity into something really powerful.
3. Progress > Perfection
I always believe in this. I believe that a step in a particular direction consistently with a purpose is better than running miles in different directions with absolutely no idea where you're going.
I don't think there's anything wrong with perfection. It wastes time and energy. Give it your best and pray for the rest.
What Is The Aim Of Studying?
Not good grades
Not perfection
Not to be smart
But to be better than what we were yesterday.
Let's be honest, if you learn something, how can you not be curious about so many things you're learning about.
There's a difference in learning for grades and learning for the sake of learning. A very minute difference.
Your perception.
You learn for grades; it makes you entirely dependent on it. You seek validation.
When you learn to better yourself, be curious and love the process of the grind? That's a different feeling. You'll love what you do.
And let's be honest. You wouldn't want to be a complete clueless person here, would you? Read more. Harness your curiosity. Be open to failure.
Getting good grades won't mean you'll succeed in life, but it might increase your chances in some cases. If not, most cases.
Your Steps
Take a day off. Don't do anything. Don't pick up textbooks. Nothing.
Take a piece of paper and just write what feel about studying. Get all your frustration out.
Then take another paper and write what studying has thought you. Your accomplishments, not just in studying but for anything.
You learnt something new? Won in a competition? Anything. You will be more aware that maybe, just maybe that you are doing good but you aren't aware of that fact. Writing down the things you've achieved gives you an idea and a direction.
Now take another paper and write:
Why Do I Feel This Way?
Do I Actually Don't Like To Study Or I Just Don't Like The Perception Of Studying?
What Actually Pisses Me Off?
Since When Am I Feeling This Way?
And Most Importantly, Is There Someone Specific That Gives Me Such Ideas/Influences My Thoughts?
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I hope this helps you, even if small. Keep trying and trust the process <33
Thanks for the input! Of course, you do you so whatever works is the way to go :)
Reblogging because it may be a useful tip for others :)
How To Study Multiple Subjects
As someone who had studied 4 subjects plus 2 languages and additional courses and extra curricular when i was homeschooled and in high school, obviously i got used to studying multiple subjects. It's fairly easy and interesting.
Here's the thing, multiple subjects is a blessing in disguise. It's easy to study many subjects because you have variety. Your brain loves variety. So, here's some tips...
Maintain Good Study Material
The mistake most students make is that they don't have the basic ground foundation. They don't know what's on the syllabus, how its structure is. Literally nothing. Many students i know, only search for their materials like two days before their exam and they panic. So, gather the following at the beginning of the school year/semester:
Textbooks (If you have any)
Practice papers
Previous year papers
Extra reading materials/ Reference books
If you don't have any textbooks. Go through the topics that you have and gather resources from different sources.
Different Notebooks For Every Subjects
I really don't understand the concept of using a single notebook for like 5-6 subjects. Like, you literally can't manage it. Even if you divide sections in the book, it will get confusing and sometimes the pages won't even be enough. So, just get a notebook for each subject. It will help you stay organized.
Divide Subjects.
Every subject is learnt and graded in a different way. You can’t use the same study techniques for every subject you have. You have mostly 3 types of subjects:
Memorization based
Practical/Question based
Theory/Essay based
You use different study techniques for different subjects. Memorization based subjects require more revision. Practical/Question based subjects require more practice. Theory based subjects require you to learn how to format your information.
Read up more: Division Of Subjects
Easy VS Difficult Subjects For You
Take a paper and write all your subjects. Now, draw a line and write your difficult subjects on one side and easy subjects on the other side. And then rate it from the most interesting to the most boring and categorize it. And then rank them on which ones take the same place. You'll get an idea of where you stand with your subjects and now you can study accordingly.
2 Subjects Per Day
This is the most important one i always recommend. If you're studying, then only 2 subjects per day should be taken up for it. Pair an interesting subject with a lighter one. If you hate accounts or find it difficult but you love English, then that's your combo. Make combinations and write them down. You can change them any day based on mood or you can keep them the same. It's up to you.
Standard Subject
I usually like to have at least one standard subject every day. That was accounts for me because i was so bad at it. The goal is not to ignore the subject until it is harder than usual. The goal is to study it every day. That subject must be your weakest one.
Breaks
Breaks are really necessary. I advise you to not allot a certain time limit for the break. Rather take a break when you actually feel tired. If you've worked for 2 hours straight, then you deserve an hour of rest. If you worked for just 30 mins and you feel tired, take 15 mins as your break. Divide your work time by half and that is your break time.
Subject Alignment With Energy
Your weakest subject must be done in your highest energy in order for you to grasp the actual concepts. That's the main aspect of it. Low energy = Easy subjects. High energy = Harder subjects. You have to identify your core energy grids and align your subjects accordingly.
Chunk Information
Group all your facts together. Instead of studying like everything is completely unrelated, study like it's all connected. If you want to learn something, chunk all your facts together. Create a visual chunk. Make everything related.
Use Mnemonics & Storytelling
Learn with these two. These help you to remember easily. Make stories and catchy phrases to remember points/facts. These are like the building blocks of studying anything. Stick small notes to your books writing the small stories and phrases beside the topic so the next time you want to revise it, it's easy.
Cheat Sheets
Create small cheat sheets. Write them down. No digital notes. Because you have physical copies. Make formulae sheets, theories, everything for every subject you are learning and keep them in different folders. Don't mix your sheets. You'll get overwhelmed. During revision, this will help a lot.
Fake Exams & Improvement Sheets
Create a fake exam environment. Sit on your desk with a timer, take a question paper and act as if you're actually writing the exam. Do this at least once and note everything. How much time you take to answer each question. What are your mistakes. Which section is your weakest. Note them down and most importantly, your overall improvements you should make.
For me, I did this for accounts, and it gave me so much clarity especially the improvements. I used to go through this improvement sheet before my actual exam and i did not repeat even a single mistake again. The trick is to keep updating the sheet by adding improvements from your actual exams too.
Testing At Random Times
I did this mostly during travel time. If i learnt a specific topic some time ago. And if i had nothing to do then I'd just mentally ask myself a question about that topic and answer it. Many times, even i am surprised the questions i ask, it gives a deep understanding of the topic. I used to even connect it to other concepts. Ask questions relating both. It's even better if you jump from one subject to the other.
Connect Similar Topic
Connect all your related subjects. Everything in school is somehow connected. I usually used to connect economics and business studies concepts. Sometimes even computers so... Connect them.
Practice Subjects Need More Time
Subjects like Accountancy, Physics, Chemistry, Economics, Maths need more time because they are in one way more practical. They require practice. Whether it be experiments o through sums. Invest more time in these subjects.
PYQ's
Use past year question papers because nothing shows important topics like pyq's. Note and mark the repeated questions and review them repeatedly. This really helps.
Read up more: How do you actually use previous year question papers
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