Just saw a poll that made me EXTREMELY mad so here's a statement:
If you read or watch media with a rape scene, especially a violently graphic one, and you get aroused or get "whumperflies" you are an awful and disgusting person.
People like you contribute so much to rape culture, perhaps more than anything else except for locker room talk and actual rapist.
You are part of the problem. You are vile. Seek help.
i am sorry for that gross anon you got it made me sick.
They are so entitled. i Hope you are safe,
Remember, sending someone r//ape threat is sexual harrasment. Anon could face charges for that.
Hope you are okay don't be ashamed this was not your fault.
♥️
I'm sorry it made you feel sick anon <3 Hope you're doing alright, thank you for such a sweet ask. And you are right, harassing and threatening a real person is in fact a crime, I'm not sure why antis insist fictional ships and ideas are illegal but go on to do something that is legitimately illegal and harmful. But it's been like this for a long time now unfortunately. Take care of yourself anon, thank you again! <3
You didn’t misread, I was on anti depressants and she start touching my thighs and I said stop and that I wasn’t in the mood and she kept saying ‘oh your sensitive’ or ‘oh the pills make you sensitive’ and I kept saying stop but she went ahead and f1ngered me (I hate saying those words so much)
Splooge idk what to do so I have a genuine fear of commitment and I wanted to break up with this person because I’ve fallen out of love with them because they are a good person and all but I don’t love them as a partner anymore but then their dad passed away and I’m genuinely freaking out because idk what to do bc I can’t break up with her and she constantly wants like kisses and sex and I don’t want it anymore and she already went ahead once after I said stop and I’m just scared now and she said if I break up with her she’ll kill herself and she blamed me for trying to commit like idk what to do anymore
alright, take everything I say with a grain of salt because im no relationship or life expert
as for the deceased parent, be there for them as much as you can, but not at the expense of putting yourself through all this trouble. You should always take everyone seriously when they say they commit, but don’t stay with them just because they say theyre going to if you dont do etc etc. thats unhealthy and manipulative and you shouldn’t have to carry that burden.
i would honestly ask a mental health professional how to move forward, if i were you id end things but who knows im not in your situation and therefore cant fully understand what this circumstance is like nor am i the best descion maker. Its really important that you stay calm and try to build distance from this person.
That person your in a relationship with is going through a hard time, fair, but forcing you to do stuff without your consent? sounds like rape unless i misread or misunderstood something, which is not okay under ANY circumstances.
im sorry your going through this, this is a really stressful and tricky situation. i hope everything works out hun