Gender Is Weird - Blog Posts

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actually when you ask someone if it's a girl or a boy you ask them what they have in their pants, it's a bit disgusting

Gender is difficult

Whenever I ponder my gender because I find it confusing there's always a road block I hit. Being a girl is so deeply rooted in my life. I've always been very vocal about my opinions on sexism, plus being female effects my life and self so much. I don't really know how to describe it any better than this. Right now I just use any/all pronouns because I really don't know or care what pronouns people use, but at the same time I get so happy when someone uses he or they instead of she. I don't really know, gender is confusing and I needed to rant.

is it just me who physically recoils in shock when relatively popular one piece commentators use he/him for yamato💀💀

im not saying a lot of one piece enjoyers are kind of wacky but,, i AM saying that the sheer quantity of arguments been made over simple pronoun usage by one piece watchers is phenomenal🧍🏻

like the general rule of thumb I've followed is that you don't have to fully understand something to respect it yk?

everyone tries to understand things 100% with everything and it's so unnecessary😭😭you don't have to explain why yamato goes by he/him just acknowledge it and respect it???? why does every redditor go on paragraphs to explain his gender LMFAOAOAO

"the Vivre card says yamato is woman >:((((((" okay???? and???? it doesn't matter if yamato is a woman or a trans man he can still use he/him pronouns regardless as pronouns isn't always gender

"YAMATO HAS BOOBS!!!!!" my man,,, my guy,,,,,, have you SEEN zoro?!?!

anyways the relatively popular one piece commentator I was referencing is StojDoes :))) go check him out he's a very unproblematic chill one piece based youtuber :DDD

Me: I am comfy with being called a girl since I have history with it and am used to being referred to she/her.

Also me: *internal gremlin cackling when smol child can’t figure out my gender*

I am transmasc. 

This is something that I did not truly realize and accept until recently.

Hello, you can call me M, my pronouns are they/he.

I was an eccentric child growing up, in my earliest years I played with the boys and their trucks, enjoyed superheros and comic books, and stomped in the mud. I can remember two separate occasions where I asked my mom “are you sure I was born to be a girl? I feel like I’m probably a guy”, and both occasions she told me she knew I was a girl, even if I liked things that traditionally boys did. 

I moved during elementary school. Suddenly there were only two boys in my class, and nine other girls besides me. It was a Catholic private school and there were uniforms. The girls wore skirts and blouses or blouses and slacks, but my mom preferred the way the skirt looked on me so I didn’t get much of a choice. My hair was a cute bob that just barely didn’t touch my shoulders, and I always wore a flowery headband. I didn’t play with the boys because they didn’t like including girls in their tag games since girls ran slower.  Besides, if I ran around too much my tights would start to run. 

I started middle school in that same private school, except now the girls wore polos with a sweater or sweater vest and the option between a kilt or slacks. We were forced to wear our kilts on the days we went to church in order to look presentable for the lord. My hair was long and wavy, but I always tied it into an ugly low pony because I didn’t have much time in the morning. There was only one guy in our class this year, him and I were friends.

I ended middle school in a different school entirely. I wasn’t used to the freedom in clothing choice that public school brought. I would try to wear whatever looked “cool”, over-feminizing myself in order to seem like a normal girl. My hair was still long and still up. I stayed friends with a single kid from private school, even though we were in separate schools now. I had exactly two close guy friends when I ended middle school. 

Freshman year, and I’m still struggling to grasp basic fashion, though sometimes I managed to put together a cohesive outfit. No matter the outfit’s success, however, it always felt like it wasn’t made for my body. My hair, once halfway down my back, was once again chopped to a cute bob. I tried eyeliner for the first time. I started to realize that I might not completely be a girl, but the title ‘Demigirl’ feels right.

It’s only in sophomore year that I allow myself to consider the possibility that I’m not truly a girl in any sense. I only have one guy friend now, but I don’t know if they count since we’re dating and they’re starting to question their gender. My outfits started to finally look and feel good. I allow my masculinity to flow freely through the clothes I wear, though still wearing eyeliner in order to keep myself pretty. I chop my hair the shortest it’s ever been. I am nonbinary.

Junior year brings quite a few changes in only a few months. I meet a senior who I befriend, and him and I are scarily similar. He tells me about his journey with gender and guides me through my feelings about mine. My outfits are very rarely feminine anymore, and I only wear eyeliner on fancy occasions. I feel gender dysphoria for the first time. I feel gender euphoria for the first time. My hair is still short as I grow it out from a crappy mullet I had gotten the summer prior. I am out to all my teachers. Am I a trans man, or simply a masc-leaning enby? November 2024 comes to a close and I am only three months into my junior year, and I cannot wait to watch my gender evolve and grow. Getting ready in the bathroom each morning I think back to preschool me asking my mom if I should have been made a boy. Man my hindsight is 20/20.